That makes total sense.
It’s hard to speak about the thing that’s been crushing you in silence.
And when you’ve carried something this heavy, for this long, silence starts to feel safer than honesty.

But here’s the truth:
Shame grows in the dark. It dies in the light.
And the moment you speak—even just a little—shame starts to lose its grip.

Everyone in this group gets it.
We all sign a pledge to protect every name and every story.
No judgment. No exposure. Just brothers, committed to healing.

You don’t have to spill your guts on day one.
You just have to show up willing.

We’ve walked with a lot of men through this process.
And I’ve never seen anyone leave feeling more ashamed—only lighter, freer, more human.
Because here’s the thing: everyone’s sinned.
And these men?
They won’t flinch.
They’ve been where you are—and they’re ready to walk with you out.

❓“What if I know someone else in the group?”

That’s a real fear—and we take it seriously.

Here’s what you need to know: some guys are stepping in for the first time, while others have walked this path before and return because of the clarity, camaraderie, and spiritual traction they found the first time around.

And believe it or not, knowing someone in the group can actually be an advantage.
Once the secret is out, you’re no longer carrying it alone. There’s instant camaraderie. Real connection. Mutual respect.

Nobody in this group is without sin. But every man here is serious about change.

Some of the deepest trust we’ve seen forms when two men who already knew each other show up with honesty and grace.

You should also know: many guys take this group more than once—not because they need more content, but because of the brotherhood, clarity, and focus it offers. The environment is that transformative.

That said—you’re always in control.
If there’s someone you’d prefer not to be grouped with, just let us know privately. We’ll make sure it doesn’t happen.

And with men joining from all over the world, the chances of overlap are low.

Don’t let shame decide for you.
Let courage speak instead.

If you’re even considering this… you probably can’t afford not to.
But let’s be real—life happens.

If your wife is having a baby, your kid’s graduating, or your house literally catches fire—okay, you’ve got an excuse. We’ll all laugh with you.

But short of that? This deserves your attention.
And the truth is, you can miss a couple sessions and still see transformation.
There’s ongoing conversation throughout the week, check-ins between meetings, and a brotherhood that doesn’t vanish when you miss a call.

That said—this isn’t passive.
You can’t coast through it and expect change.
You’ll need to carve out time to work through the material, reflect honestly, and write out your story.

Most programs give you surface-level tactics to stop behavior.
We go under the surface:

• Heal the attachment wounds that drive the behavior

• Replace false identities with God-given truth

• Rewire the brain to respond differently under stress

• Rebuild your intimacy with God and others

This isn’t management. It’s transformation.

We don’t teach you how to cope with bondage—we show you how to break it.

That’s a fair question—especially if you’ve tried other things before.

Here’s the truth: you’ll get out what you put in.
We don’t promise magic. We promise a process that works when you engage it honestly.

If you show up, stay consistent, and let yourself be challenged—you won’t walk out the same.
And if it doesn’t help? If you tell us by the second session, tell us. We’ll make it right. No shame. No pressure.