Conflict-to-Connection Scorecard

The Conflict-to-Connection Scorecard

Discover your marriage's communication cycle and why it keeps repeating.

How It Works

1 Take the assessment separately
2 About 10 minutes each
3 Review results together

Answer honestly based on the last 30 days, not your best week.

Who's first?
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Your responses have been saved. Now it's 's turn.

Hand the device to your spouse so they can answer the same questions honestly and individually.

Your Relationship Assessment Results

Review these together and discuss what resonates

🔄 The Healthy Loop

Voice (Assertiveness) Safety (Responsiveness)

Safety invites truth. Voice brings truth. When both are practiced, small issues get addressed before they grow, and conflict becomes something you walk through together rather than something that divides you.

Your scores on these two scales:

⚠️ The Unhealthy Cycle

When the healthy loop breaks down, these patterns emerge. Avoidance and Pressure are responses to feeling unsafe or unheard. Heat measures how intense conflict gets. Repair determines whether you recover or carry the damage forward.

Strength
Needs Attention
Critical Focus

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